Saturday, November 16, 2013

My Quality of Life

November 16, 2013

Once I realized my value, my quality of life changed.  Who are you and what do you have to offer?  These are two very important questions that most people cannot answer.  If you don't have a handle on the simple things about you, what makes you think that the complexities can be dealt with.  I have found that some people take advantage of your value, because you don't know your own value.  This is when things don't move for you.  You will find yourself giving out more than you should and you end up drained with no one to pour back into you.  This is wasted gift.  You will know this when everyone around you starts to prosper because of the things that you advised, but yet your life still is not moving. Educate yourself about you.  Take inventory on a regular basis.  When you know more about you than others, you will always add to a situation.  Why, because you have the ability to make things happen and not talk about what needs to happen.  Don't give away what others are getting paid for.  Position yourself for greatness by mearly knowing your value and never being pimped to the lowest bidder (free).  Work smarter, not harder and always remember that you are the common denominator...


Friday, November 15, 2013

Say What Is On Your Mind But Only At The Right Time

November 15, 2013

Say what is on your mind but at the right time means don't be so quick to express your self just to be heard.  Make sure that what you have to say is justified and done at the right time.  Sure, you may have a point that needs to be heard, but don't always be the one that has to be out right mean with it.  You see motive runs parallel with karma.  With the wrong spirit behind what you say and do, it will come back to haunt you.  If you do the right thing, then when the time is right your point will always be heard.  It will always show itself worthy of others to hear.  I learned a long time ago, that the one in the room with the most wisdom, is very quiet.  Wisdom does not have to make any noise for you to know it is there.  WISDOM JUST IS!!!  Never fight wisdom, take in what it has to offer.  Never try to show yourself more knowledgeable, because you will only fall on your face.  Embrace wisdom, because in the long run you will stand tall like it does with your roots planted firmly underground.  The further your roots grow, the more you are built to handle without being shaken.  Observe more than you speak and you will learn more than you know.  Your future depends on it...


Thursday, November 14, 2013

See What U Want It To Be...

November 14, 2013

In order to reach real success in life, you must see what you want a thing to be before you get it.  There is no way in the world you can make it to the finish line if you have not already finished in your mind before the race even started.  People ask me all of the time, how do I keep moving from one great thing to the next.  My answer for them is always the same.  I dreamed this 30 years ago and put it on the schedule to make it happen.  You see, the bible is plain when it says, write the vision down and make it plain.  It means just what it says.  When you write a thing down, you begin to meditate on it and you then work towards it coming to pass.  It is like making your daily schedule.  For the most part, you get everything on your written list done.  For those things that you don't get to, you get them done first the next day.  Look at life the same way.  Get it done.  The list is to help guide you and get you to what you dreamed about.  This is important.  Not only do you have what you say,  you have what you see in your vision of where you want to be also.  All of the things I have, I saw in my clearest vision first.  I never stopped dreaming even though it took however long to get there.  I KNEW that it was a part of my destiny and I EXPECTED it to show up.  It works the same with negative stuff too.  Don't keep saying that you are sick because eventually you will be.  Don't claim broke because you will be just that.  See yourself doing great things and you will achieve greatness!  You have heard it a million, you have what you say.  Now the question is, when will you start believing it...


Friday, September 27, 2013

Opportunity Is Here

September 27, 2014

Opportunity is here and just waiting for you to take over.  There is no other time better than now.  You have to pray for increase in your discernment when opportunities show up.  If you don't, you will miss it.  Years ago I had the chance to go and star in a major broadway play.  They decided to take this play to Japan and granted me one of the lead roles.  I, at the time, was in a local group (the least favored and the more loyal) and we had big dreams.  I had to leave for Japan the day after they notified me.  Although the group fought all the time, they talked about me all of the time and they just did not care about me at all, I hesitated and drove around the airport for an hour only to decide to stay because of my loyalty.  I have that problem to a default sometimes.  Long story short, I did not go and I had to be replaced in the play.  I went on to rehearsal and stayed with that group.  In two weeks we were told that one of the other singers had signed a deal and would be leaving (WOW).  I was speachless.  And although I was dissappointed, that was not the biggest issue.  There was a young lady that they flew in to take my place and while she was in Japan, she recieved a major record deal with the company that I had submitted my music to for review.  So the moral to this story is for you to discern and move on every opportunity that is for YOU.  Analyze it, make a decision and stick to the decision that you make and you will get to your destiny without delay!!!


Thursday, May 23, 2013

What Are Your Motives

May 23, 2013

Motives make everyone skeptical when it is a hidden secret.  Sincerity/honesty commands a whole different level of trust.  People know when your heart is right, so do right.  No one wants strings to always be attached to the things that you do for them.  Be forthcoming with information and you just may be surprised with the results.  It is not a bad thing to be open with your desires.  As a matter of fact, it can help a person to appreciate you better.  That person could have something that they want out of the deal too. Communication is key in every situation.


Wednesday, May 22, 2013

If You Don't Trust Him...Ask Yourself Why!

May 22, 2013

If you don't trust him, ask yourself why.  You cannot live your life in a bubble.  Your relationship will suffer.  A man who is sincere and trustworthy will always make sure that you know things.  You won't have to struggle to get information out of him.  He will be forthcoming with it.  The very thing that you wonder about the most will not be a problem.  Can you say the same?  I have encountered many with this problem and I discovered that the reason that they don't trust is because they can't be trusted.  When you have skeletons in your closet, then it tends to make you a bit paranoid.  You think that someone is doing something to you that you are doing or have done yourself.  It is a vicious cycle that people get caught in and they don't realize it.  When you are doing everything right that you need to, then everything else will fall into place as they should.  Don't step out if you don't want it done to you.


Tuesday, May 21, 2013

How To Forgive

May 21, 2013

Forgiving the person who hurt you the most is not as easy as it sounds.  It can really be one of the hardest things that you will ever have to do.  For some reason, you can take it from the world better than you can when it is someone that is very close to you.  Don't look at it that way though or you will get stuck in unforgiveness.   You have too much riding on your ability to forgive.  It is like a cancer to your bones and can cause sickness.  It is not worth it.  Make up your mind that you think about the fact that you are forgiven daily for all of the little things that you do wrong.  We are not perfect.  We are all works in progress.  You can't ask for something that you are not willing to give yourself.  You have to think on that everyday.  Again, no it is not easy but it is necessary if you plan to be successful.  Real success does not harbor negative energy.  Unforgiveness is negative and keeps one from flourishing.  Never forget the man in the bible who was forgiven his debts and he turned around and tried to make the man who owed him pay.  He was then severely punished for his actions.  Just forgive and keep it moving.  Humble yourself when doing so.  The same measure you give is what will be given to you.