Don't Move Until The Representative Is Gone...

January 31, 2013

Don't move until the representative is gone simply means, take your time before settling down with anyone.  You see, when we meet people, everyone has their game face on - even you.  We go out of our way for each other.  Our speech is totally different.  The representative takes his/her time with you and is very patient.  No one is easily bothered by any situations that may occur.  But if it is not really in a person, the facade wears off eventually.  The reason this is so important is that when relationships get to the real deal, they usually fizzle and fade away.  If there is no substance, they cannot stand the pressures life throws at them.  We have to be willing to slow down and get to know a person for real.  There would be less divorce if we did.  The funny thing is that even when the real person shows up, you will be able to handle it, if that is your true mate.  You guys can talk about anything and when one gets out of line, the other wants to change it because IT MATTERS.  Isn't that what we are really after?  We just want things to matter with our mate.  By doing it this way, you not only get to know them but you really get to know yourself.

SW

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